Sunday, September 1, 2013

Penguin, Party of One....

Today in Dallas, Texas it was 105 degrees.  ONE.  HUNDRED.  FIVE.  That makes my fingers sweat just typing those words.  105 degrees...and that was not EVEN a record--its been hotter on this date!  The hottest I recall it being in the 21 years I've lived in Texas was over a Labor Day weekend in the late 90's.  That banner day saw the temperature rise to 113 degrees.  EXCUSE ME?!?  113...DEGREES?!?  I do not live in Palm Springs or Death Valley.  Last time I checked, the Equator was quite some distance away, yet here we are, baking in the oven known as Texas.  I remember thinking on that 113 degree day, that I had most certainly prayed the wrong prayer.

I recall it quite vividly, that prayer I made to the Lord.  It was May, 1992.  My Masters degree was completed and I was looking for a job.  The world was my oyster! I was ready to spread my wings and move somewhere new!  But where?  At the University of Alabama Job Placement Center, I checked the postings for Job Fairs interviewing prospective teachers: North Carolina, Alaska, Florida, Texas were some of the places advertised on the board.  Excited with the prospect of moving somewhere new, I walked away from the Placement Center and prayed this prayer to God...

"Dear God, I will go wherever you send me, but PLEASE God, don't send me to Florida... I couldn't stand the heat.  In Jesus name, AMEN!!"

God has a sense of humor.  I know He does.  Within a few weeks following my heartfelt prayer, I had signed a contract to teach Kindergarten in Keller, Texas.  I knew not a soul in all the Dallas/Fort Worth area, but I was moving to Texas! The day I arrived in Texas from Alabama was August 1, 1992, and good Lord in Heaven was it ever HOT!!

Now, before I go any further with this heat issue, let me say that truly, the Lord answers prayers and the Lord puts you (me!) right where you need to be! Hot weather aside, I have loved living in Texas!  Texas has been very good to me, and the Lord knew that Texas was right where I needed to land.  The love of my life was found right here in Dallas, just two short months after I arrived.  As a Kindergarten teacher, I was blessed with incredible administrators, colleagues, students and parents throughout my teaching career.  I have wonderful friends, all for which I am so grateful and know that this is right where I was meant to be for all this time.  

Texas is a wonderful place...and I love it dearly! Except for one BIG thing...the WEATHER.  Lord help us all, but how I do hate, loathe and despise the Texas weather. Anyone who has known me more than half an hour knows that I had rather have my teeth chattering, be frozen to the bone and have icicles hanging off my chin than endure the heat and the ensuing need to sweat.  

Surely I am a misplaced Penguin.  A misguided Eskimo.  An iceberg in a former life.  Recently my Mama and I were speculating how this could have happened--someone who won't even take a hot shower due to such a disdain for heat--ended up in the hot and humid South.  We decided when the Stork was delivering me, it misread the delivery information for Alabama instead of Alaska.  Well, at least that explains things....

Living in Texas, I learned very quickly that Texans think the only way life should be is the way it is in Texas, including the weather.  The summers in Texas are long and brutal....LONG...and brutal.  Summer begins to arrive in early April, fully settling in by May and lasting well into November.  I remember one year when the Autumn leaves were still falling from the trees on NEW YEAR'S DAY....and the trees were sprouting anew by the end of February with the joyous news that Summer was on its way...AGAIN!!  THIS IS NOT NORMAL!!!!  Texans for years have been saying, the reason we live here are for those 75 degree days we get in January and February.  Uh, no thank you.  If I have to roast in the summer like a pig on a spit in the fire pits of hell, I had darn better have some COLD WEATHER in the Winter!  

It's best not to get your hopes up on that one...having cold weather in the Winter.  It might get nippy for a few days here and there, a couple weeks if I'm lucky.  But then, before you know it, it's a hundred degrees of Summer all over again.  People seem to think its freakish for someone to prefer cold to hot weather.  To those folks, I guess I am king of the freaks...because I LOVE cold weather, and I will be dancing a happy little jig with every advent of the season's changing!  Maybe one day we will live up least I can hope!  

For now, I live in Texas where Summer seems to last forever, and where the Lord answers prayers...ALL KINDS of prayers!  Just not always as WE intended, but least He didn't send me to Florida, where He KNOWS I couldn't stand the heat!   

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

You can take the boy out of the city...kicking and SCREAMING!!

Well, time moves on...many moons have passed since I have last posted on my blog...and OH the twists life has taken!!  Dan and I have sold our condo in Dallas and moved east!  Alas, the waters on the beaches of Nantucket Island are not lapping at our toes, nor are we gazing longingly at the Smoky Mountains.  No playful flicking of our toes in cool, gurgling mountain streams.  We're still hundreds of miles from the banks of the Mississippi River, for pete's sake!  Regardless, we HAVE moved EAST...about one hour east of Dallas...on Highway 80, just a hop, skip and a spit north of Canton, the nice little hamlet of Edgewood!
We packed up and bubble wrapped the china and the crystal, the Robert Graham shirts, the silver tea service, our precious little Katie Belle, and away we went to TRULY live on the EDGE! 

Towering skylines?  WAY overdone...who needs it?!  22nd floor view?  So tiresome...we now have birds dining outside our breakfast room window...that is, if the cat doesn't catch them.  Restaurants by the dozen?  Puh-shaw!!  We now have pick-up trucks on the side of the road selling tomatoes the size of your head!  Nordstrom's Shoe department, Northpark venue?  Okay, well I AM in withdrawal over that one, but I digress...  As the skyscrapers of downtown Dallas faded in the rear-view mirror, a perky little tune kept hitting the repeat button in my head...

Green Acres theme song

Channeling my inner Lisa Douglas for homespun therapy in the wake of urban withdrawal, unveiling the next chapter in life was sure to bring a sense of connectedness to my small town Alabama roots: waving at strangers on the way to the Piggly Wiggly and nodding my head with a "Mornin' Ma'am!" at checkout, a deep desire to prepare homemade jams, jellies and pickled beets 'put up' in our very own kitchen, possibly even an urge to piece together a quilt out of neckties and last seasons Jhane Barnes and Robert Graham city slicker shirts...the big decision being whether the quilt should be patterned of Dutch Dolls, 

 or the more ambitious Cathedral Window... 

Uh-huh...don't count on cutting up the Robert Graham's...NOT happening!  

(For those out of the loop...please meet Robert Graham's most fabulous shirts...none that I possess shall ever be chopped up for ANY Dutch Girl I know!!)

So, we've moved to the "country."  Yes, the "country" has it's charms, it's quaint slow-paced lifestyle, and the obligatory train whistle blowing in the distance.  As much as I love, dare I say crave life in an urban setting, there is no other place I could be right now than here in Edgewood, Texas.  You see, Dan's mother will celebrate her 93rd birthday later this year, and in the months preceding it had become increasingly evident that she was needing someone with her on a daily basis.  Dan being an only child, and I, being the twenty year partner of an only child, would be her Daily Basis.  Some things you just do, no questions asked.  It was never a question of 'whether' we should, could or would move in to help care for Dan's Mother, but a question of 'when.'  That 'when' was this past June 20th...  

And so, the merging of our home and lives in with that of a precious 92 year old lady has begun.  Much smiling and biting of the tongue, along with  strengthening the virtues of restraint and flexibility have been well, let's just say 'Serendipity' of this journey.  Four weeks today the moving van pulled up to the front of Mrs. Blackburn's 1950's Ranch styled home.  As the burly moving men began to wheel in the many boxes of crystal and china, and more boxes than I care to count marked "Master Closet" and "Barry's Shoes", one of the moving men whispered to me, "This is a far cry from La Tour!"  La Tour was the building they moved all these boxes down 22 floors earlier in the day and now being squeezed into a seemingly too small house in seemingly too small Edgewood truly was quite a world apart...but this new space--our new home, inside and around Dan's Mother's older home is where we need to be--where we want to be.  Blog entries forthcoming of these past few weeks...and LORD HAVE MERCY, are there stories to share!

Yes, dahling, I adored my penthouse view (almost...just one floor away!) and even as I say 'Goodbye, city life!", there is no where on planet Earth that I had rather be than here with Dan...and his Mother...biting my tongue and waving to the strangers on the way to the Piggly Wiggly. 

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Kindergarten Lunch Duty: I got out just in time! more day, and it would have been POSTAL!!  POSTAL, I TELL YOU!!  I would not have been responsible for my actions! The reason for my unbridled last leap over the edge of Lunch Duty sanity?  I shall tell you.  


It should never have happened.  Yogurt.  In a bendable, breakable, spewable, squirtable, gushable plastic enclosure.  Yogurt should be in a cup, plastic and disposable. Sturdy in the event of an 'oops' or 'splat.'  Instead, somewhere in a laboratory deep in that mystical, mythical land of "WHAT IN THE HELL WERE THEY THINKING?!?" there was a day when some nimrod inventor, in his own personal "Ah Ha! moment came up with the OH so clever notion of putting a squishy food in a little plastic sleeve. Toddlers and other unsuspecting youngsters in their formative years of acquiring table manners, could now on a whim push,  slosh and spew Go-Gurt in projectile fashion onto their faces, faces of friends and every other surrounding surface for a 4 square mile radius. 

Should the young tots chubby little stubbs, one day to evolve into dextrous digits known as fingers not be able to "Tear here -->", our young problem-solvers move to option number two:  gnawing the little plastic sleeve until the Gurt within goes...EVERYWHERE!!  Usually at some point midst gnaw, the little plastic sleeve RIPS open top to bottom, with 'Very Berry' Go-Gurt gushing onto walls, dashboards, freshly pressed dress shirts, Grandmother's custom draperies, the Kindergarten teacher's khakis....well, you get the picture.  

Go-Gurt.  Yogurt on the GO!  Woo-Hoo!  Destined to be found the most ill-conceived food packaging choice in the history of lunch boxes, viciously targeting the table manners of our nation's youth and their well intentioned OCD care-givers. These oozing squeezers of yogurt on the go will surely be the tipping point of more than one well-intentioned teacher of our young into early retirement, but this is just one opinion, from one Kindergarten teacher.  I'm sure there are many Kindergarten teachers and other caring adults out there who just LOVE Go-Gurt!  Of course, they are either dead, retired, or today is NOT their day on Kindergarten Lunch Duty! 

"...uh, Mr. Creel?  We've had a yogurt explosion over here...and it's not pretty."  Preston, 6 years old. 

Going to the Chapel, and it's time to get married!

Well, I am just giddy with excitement!  In just a couple of weeks, the 2012 Wedding Season at Oak Lawn United Methodist Church in Dallas, Texas will be off and running!  Might I also add, IT'S ABOUT TIME, FOLKS!!  

Apparently, those pondering a forever of togetherness, have been taking the route of shackin' up and "living in sin" more here in recent days.  The "I Do's" have been few and far between over the past year, and I'm pretty sure the Lord is ready for some of those young whipper-snappers to get their well-heeled duffs out of 'Shackin' up' mode and into 'To Have and to Hold' mode! I'm just sayin'...  

Finally, the long awaited monogrammed shrimp forks have made it onto the gift registry, and the seamstress for the bridesmaids dresses will finally get the last word on color choice: Blush or Bashful.  I for one am READY to hear some of those regal organ standards that make my eyes all misty, and furl a lovely bride's gown and veil 'just so' as she heads down the aisle for her big moment! 

This begins my sixth year serving as Wedding Coordinator at Oak Lawn UMC, and the tales that are being chronicled for my "book" have spanned the range from "You HAVE to be kidding me?!" to "I can't even BEGIN to make this stuff up!" 

Over the years, as the notches on my Wedding Coordinator Cummerbund have grown in number, I have gathered a few nuggets of wisdom and pearls of matrimonial caution that I would like to share with you, should YOU be the one left to ponder the consequences of forgetting to pick up the Mother of the Bride from the hotel, and no one realizing it until time to escort her down the aisle. True story. One of many. Crazy. Bizarre. I can't make them up...

#1. Double check that the Mother of the Bride is actually at the church before signaling to the organist to begin the music to seat the parents. It makes for some long organ loops otherwise...

#2.  Do not show up to the Wedding Rehearsal drunk.  When the flower girl and the Wedding Coordinator are the only ones not reeking of Jack Daniel's, it does not bode well for a productive evening.  

#3. Florists who send extra corsages and boutonnieres are given bonus points and preferential treatment. Inevitably too few are delivered, and semi-inebriated groomsmen tend to encounter boutonniere breakage. Shocker!  In a pinch, I have crafted stunning corsages out of band-aides, duct tape, and freshly plucked boutonnieres from lapels of ushers for Mothers, step-mothers, jilted biological father's girlfriends, and unexpected step-grandmothers just back from the defibrillator. I've even grabbed a handful of petals from the flower girls basket and transformed it into a lapel flower for a Father of the Bride in the time it took the flower girl to make it down the aisle.  All in a days work.  

#4. It helps to know how to tap-dance...just in case.  Should by chance, your Pastor happens to be caught in "traffic" somewhere between home and the church, and you find this out 7 minutes before the wedding is scheduled to begin, it isn't always in the Wedding Coordinator's best interest to suggest the Pastor had left home in a more timely manner to avoid this catastrophe in timing. The risk that this thoughtful suggestion will not be taken in the helpful way it was intended, COULD cause the Pastor to HANG UP THE PHONE on the Wedding Coordinator 6 minutes before scheduled ceremony time.  At this point, the over wrought Wedding Coordinator is left to wonder if the Pastor is two blocks or two miles from the church?   Not a pretty situation to be in...not a pretty situation at all!!  Tap dancing to ensue...

#5.  Strangers will occasionally wander into your perfect storybook wedding.   Take for example one Homeless gent that came into the foyer of the church just as I was about to send one Bride down the's the winner of the "I can't make this stuff up!"  Read on...

It is a standard occurrence for guests to arrive and wander into the church even when the couple is exiting the sanctuary, freshly married!  One wedding, just as the music was about to change for the Bride's entry, that familiar "CREAK!!" of the old foyer doors opening had me beginning to mumble under my breath at the late arrivers. Instead, I turn around and am caught in midst chastise to find a homeless man with a most surprised look on his face, seeing a Bride and her father ready to head down the aisle.  In horror, I leap over the Bride's train and inform the gentleman, pleasant smile on my face, that we are having a wedding and I am just about to send a beautiful bride down the aisle! If he wouldn't mind, please wait RIGHT HERE and I will be back to assist him in just a few moments.  

Fervent prayers are silently being HURLED (by me!) heavenward that this gentleman is not out of his ever loving gourd, or crazy as a bessie-bug..or both!  Lord, let him stay put and not wander in the sanctuary on the other side where it was unattended! Lord, let me stay calm!  Lord?  Did that man's tee-shirt SAY WHAT I THINK IT SAID?!?  Yes, it did.  The man that was standing two feet behind this bride about to walk down the aisle, was wearing a tee-shirt that said the following, and I quote:  'ANATOMY OF A PERVERT.' 

There was an illustration on the tee-shirt that wish I had been able to study that I assume was the answer to the age old question of exactly what 'ANATOMY OF A PERVERT' looks like.  After getting the bride ushered down the aisle, I rushed back to the foyer to find my unexpected wedding guest had disappeared.  After watching with a smile on his face as our bride entered the sanctuary to be married, with the thundering organ music as a backdrop, he apparently wandered on his way.  I always thought this could have been an "Angel unaware" and I was thankful to have been cordial and not pop a gasket as I was inclined at that particular moment. I wondered if that could have been Jesus peeking in the foyer door.  I thought Jesus might have chosen a different tee-shirt for the evening...  Just as the Bride was going down the aisle, she asked me who the man at the door was, I replied, "Oh, him?  He drops by for all our weddings!"  

Sunday, November 20, 2011

If there's Football in Heaven, I don't want to go!

Growing up in Alabama, it didn't take long to see the unwavering fervor and reverence for Football that 999 out of every 1000 Alabamians holds fast: allegiance to The University of Alabama's Crimson Tide, or Auburn University's War Eagles...or Tigers.  Whatever.  As many of my friends can attest, I was that one token leftover, number 1000.  Big woo.... 

However, growing up in Alabama--and eventually attending The University of Alabama--valuable self-preservation skills proved essential.  Skills which continue to serve me well, even 20 years post graduation.  I will attempt to list these vital self-preservation skills for others, who like me might be living amidst contentious football fans:

#1:  MOVE!  The easiest and quickest way to pluck oneself out of the pigskin fray is to pack it up, load it on the U-Haul and find yourself a new zip-code!  Word of Caution:  Choosing a large college town as your new home could find you right back where you started, with even more uncomplimentary school colors. Plan carefully!  Another Word of Caution:  If you are addicted to Facebook, and persist in keeping in touch with friends from college days, well my friend, your pigskin is cooked!  

#2:  Keep your mouth shut and lay low.  This time of year, when emotions are running high surrounding the defense, poll rankings and Bowl contention, Laying Low is just about the best you can do.  Keeping your mouth shut can only help your cause.  Take it from someone who knows...

#3:  Learn the Essentials!  Friends can explain the rules of the game, why this coach had better be updating his resume, or the benefits of early draft picks. It matters not... those of us who are the one in a thousand will never understand, nor do we necessarily care to understand.  That being said, it is the human being's primal desire to survive.  In a confusing world dominated by sports, specifically football, learning the essentials of a team can be a lifesaver!  

Essential 1: Memorize the History!  If there is a famous coach/player/fabled story that is revered as if blessed by God, you better take the time to learn it, and get it right!  Even for us 'one in a thousand' folk, there are some  things you just can't get around.  Find out what they are and commit those details to memory.  Your life...or social standing...might depend on it.  
Essential 2:  Learn the fight song!  From personal experience, the time spent learning the words AND tune has pulled me out of more than one sticky sporting situation... A friend who cares about your health and well-being should be willing to help you with this daunting task.  

#4:  AVOID THE FATAL QUESTION: If you took the advice of #1 and got the heck out of dodge, yet find yourself chit-chatting with college friends on Facebook one Saturday in Autumn, NEVER, I repeat NEVER say, "Oh, is there a game today?" Once you hit 'return' on that question, there is NOTHING, and I repeat NOTHING you can do to help your cause but go straight to #2...Keep your mouth shut from that point on, and lay the lowest you possibly can.  

This all brings me to ponder how to best address the vexing evening that was last night...  Normally, on a football weekend, it doesn't take too long to see who is the opposing rival of the week.  Yesterday was a stumper.  As I saw posts fly onto the screen of my iMac, there were so many teams names tossed about I still don't know who it actually was that my Alma Mater, The University of Alabama was actually up against.  

Apparently there were other games influencing something about the U of A's final standing.  There was confusing, though similar dialogue being posted from Texas friends with no obvious Alabama ties, some pulling for opposing teams, some for U of A. Alabama fans were swooning over having to cheer for USC. It was Bama and Baylor and Oklahoma and USC and even dear old Vanderbilt keeping the status updates smoking hot!  

Over the course of the evening, one friend was bidding farewell to the Ducks, the Sooners, and was finally praying for the Baptists!  There were even laments being offered for the fate of Vandy (that's Vanderbilt in case you didn't know...)  Much discussion surrounded one particular coach by the name of Lane Kiffin.  The general consensus seemed to be that Mr. Kiffin would be hard pressed to win a popularity contest on the UA campus or anywhere else for that matter.  If that hit to Mr. Kiffin's self-esteem weren't bad enough, his choice of attire on the sidelines last night was said to be reminiscent of--and I am only quoting others here--a "tampon."  Oh my...  

I just decided that my best option was to keep the mouth shut and lay low!  Who cares what its all about anyway...I'll just check the status feed next Saturday on Facebook and all will be clear!  

OH DEAR HEAVEN Saturday....the Saturday after the Iron Bowl!  Alabama vs. Auburn.  

Thank you God, for giving me the good sense to go with the U-Haul and a new zip code!  AMEN!!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Vacations of days gone by...

The days of "Summer Vacation" are quickly winding down.  Back to School sales are in full swing, and I am marveling at the fact the my niece Mary Claire begins her Junior year at Cullman High School, and my nephew Ben will start his first year in Middle School.  Time flies--whether we are wanting it to or not!  As much as I loathe the heat of this season, there are many things that over the years have endeared this time of year to the heart strings.  Summer vegetables: a REAL  summer tomato, red through and through, which can't be found worth eating at any other time of year.  Green tomatoes fried up by the platter full are right up there at the top of summer loves in my book!  Memories of stringing beans, shelling peas, and hours upon hours of catching fireflies in a mayonnaise jar late into the hot summer evening, provide a bit of redemption for the days upon end of sweating...and sweating...and sweating.  

Growing up in my family bestowed a love of the mountains if by default, with most every summer vacation finding our family of four trekking north to the Great Smoky Mountains and Gatlinburg, Tennessee.  The beach? Who needs it?!?  We had the Smokies...Cades Cove, Newfound Gap, breakfast at the Pancake Pantry, and a balcony over the Little Pigeon River, courtesy of Rocky Waters Motor Lodge.  Yes, summer did have a perk or two!!  

A few months ahead of summer's arrival, Mother and I would send off for the latest brochures from the Gatlinburg Chamber of Commerce.  When they began arriving in our mailbox, it was almost as euphoric as the arrival of the Sears and Roebuck Wishbook...almost!  Brochures in hand, planning could begin in earnest!  And plan, I did!  My first checklist item was phoning my Granny asking to borrow the classic Samsonite luggage, the only proper mode of transport for my vacation wardrobe across hill and dale to Rocky Waters Motor Lodge!  Over the years, there weren't too many inns, motels or "Motor Lodges" that we didn't try out.  My personal favorite was always Rocky Waters Motor Lodge.  For some reason, a "Motor Lodge" had a nostalgic feel to it, and with a balcony over a mountain stream beckoning us to the sounds of rushing water over rocks of the Little Pigeon River, Rocky Waters was a hands down winner!

 In the weeks leading up to vacation departure, days would be meticulously crossed off the calendar in eager anticipation of our family's mountain get-away!  Mama would always secure a box to be placed on the Living Room sofa a couple weeks ahead of time.  There, we would gather food items needed for mountainous picnic lunches.  Tiny cans of Deviled Ham (with the paper wrappers on the outside of the can), Ritz Crackers, Vienna Sausages, Jif Peanut Butter, Beanie Weenies, White Bread, a knife to slice tomatoes, and a bottle of mustard. If there were nothing else in that box, there would be a bottle of mustard.  Mama seemed to think that she could not leave town without French's mustard safe and secure inside the sacred food box!  

The plaid cooler, paid for with stamps at the Top Value Trading Stamps store would find its place beside the food box about a week before we left.  Granny's Samsonite would be laid out on my bed awaiting all of my meticulously folded, carefully coordinated outfits.  Without fail, I would be packed and ready to go at least a week ahead of time. 

My sister Amy would have me worried to death not taking the time to pack until a day or two before we would leave for the mountains!  However,  Amy's vacation belongings would be on the ready by the evening before departure.  That is when she and I would have our 'trial run' for vacation travel.  On Vacation Eve, as soon as the car pulled into the carport, post car wash and oil change, Amy and I would begin our organizing of the car's interior.  Pillows, a quilt, lucky stuffed animals that made the vacation 'cut', books, my brochures and maps to mark our journey, and various other personal items that just couldn't be left behind for an entire week were loaded for the much anticipated journey!  We would place, shift, situate and shuffle until our little nest in the backseat of the Buick Electra 225 was deemed complete and perfect.  Being the siblings we were, different as daylight and dark from the get-go, it was also a necessity to mark off MY space and HER space--that invisible line of the no cross zone, which under NO circumstances was to be compromised, by even a pinkie toe.  Then, Amy and I would "practice" being on vacation, sitting in the back seat of the Buick to assure every pillow was fluffed and magic marker was in its place as our vacation dreams began to unfold exactly as planned.

One of my favorite parts of the departure was the time of day!  We would get up early...VERY early, usually around 4:30 or 5:00 a.m. to begin our mountain get-away wasting not one minute.  I would be gnawing at the bit to leave--starched, pressed and wide-eyed, vacation ready since 3:00 a.m.  Amy, on the other hand would barely be out of bed and dressed by 5:00.  Mother would make the ritual tour of the house, at least four times, making sure that the stove was turned off, the thermostat was set to 85, doors locked, windows latched, and one or two lamps left on to make sure the house would appear 'lived in' while we were away, deterring criminals and neighborhood hoodlums. Also, there was most likely a double check that the French's mustard hadn't accidentally fallen out of the vacation food box while being loaded. 

When the siblings were quite small and thoughts of 5 hours in the car with 'fighting and scratching' mere inches away from my Mother peace of mind, she had planned ahead!  Now, lo and all these years later, Mama's "Surprise Box" which would appear immediately after the utterance of the first "Are we there yet?!?"  Then like the magic that they were, float over the front seat to the back,  our wide eyes and eager fingers reaching for our box of surprises, spending the next several hours applying stickers, etching and sketching, cutting and pasting to our hearts content!  Even now I marvel at how Mama could find the absolute perfect items for our Surprise boxes! Yes, Mama Frances knew how to achieve world harmony, along with a double dose of peace and quiet right there in the Buick Electra 225!  

"SEE ROCK CITY!"  "VISIT THE LOST SEA!" "FORBIDDEN CAVERNS!"  "SEE 7 STATES!"  Counting Rock City signs, noting license plates from exotic states like Ohio and Pennsylvania on passing cars, collecting brochures at the Tennessee Welcome Center, watching for the Chattanooga Choo-Choo sign as we passed close by, and watching with eager anticipation of the first exit sign to the Great Smoky Mountains!  Passing the traveling time. Ah, such simpler days were those...

Almost there!!  After leaving the interstate in Knoxville, we would marvel each year how much things had grown in Sevierville, Tennessee and especially in the town of Pigeon Forge, which in time seemed to take on more of a carnival atmosphere, devoid of the expected 'mountain charm.'  Once making it through the traffic of Pigeon Forge, we could smell the mountain air and roll down the Buick's windows to hear the first sounds of the refreshing mountain streams.  

The days to follow would be allotted a major activity or destination. Driving over the mountain to Cherokee, North Carolina one day, the next would be the long drive out to Cades Cove hoping to see a bear or deer before time to select a perfect table next to the stream for our picnic lunch. 

One day would be set aside to stroll about Gatlinburg and wander in and out of the town shops.  Mama and Daddy would always have watchful eyes should Amy and I start veering toward The Rebel Corner, a souvenir store of note that had a questionable area that our young eyes were not ready to see--so says the parents.  Tiny outhouses with crass sayings etched on the side, t-shirts with slogans even more crass than the outhouse etchings, and my personal favorite, a small plastic lady that when her tummy was pressed her top would fly up revealing the plastic breasts hiding beneath. Oh my, the scandal!!!

One day, we would drive about half way up the mountain to the Chimney Tops picnic ground.  We could find a table there close to the stream so the parents could scout for bears and other lurking mountain dangers while the siblings frolicked in the stream.  There, I could resume my annual vacation ritual of collecting stones from the rushing waters of the streams.  Another item of note: It was at the Chimney Tops picnic area where a nutritious culinary concoction, worthy of worldwide acclaim was born:  The Vacation Sandwich!  

The Chimney Top lunch day arrived one year to find the contents of the food box somewhat slim.  A jar of peanut butter and some bananas, long past their "Use by" date was just about it.  My Daddy mashed up the near brown bananas along with the peanut butter, smeared the mix on some white bread, and mmmm, mmmm!! The Vacation Sandwich had arrived on the Smoky Mountain picnic menu, never to be removed!  

Vacation bliss!  There amongst the mountains and streams, motels and motor lodges, pancake restaurants and salt water taffy kitchens, the Creel family memories of what a vacation should be were made. Cherished then and recreated today, but always just a day or two short of enough. 

Before we knew it, all the coordinated outfits had been worn, each favorite restaurant had been visited, and the plaid cooler held only questionable selections at best for roadside snacking.  Granny's Samsonite hauled into the Buick's trunk notably heavier, with creek rocks tucked among the swimsuits and newly acquired tee-shirts.  Bags of sweets from The Old Smoky Candy Kitchen held the requisite gifts for grandparents and neighbors kind enough to collect newspapers and watch over the homestead.  (You just never know... the two chosen lamps left burning 24 hours a day for the past week might not have fooled the local hoodlums lurking about in evening hours. This was the early days of The Neighborhood Watch!)

Fun times!  Happy memories! Well, most were happy... There was that year when a phone call one vacation afternoon gave an abrupt end to that year's merry-making in the mountains. Granny, the giver of guilt, called to tell the latest local news:  our cousin Allene had gotten married.  Yay!!  Good for her!  But wait....we have to GO HOME EARLY?!?  Just because Allene GOT MARRIED?!? WHY?!?  PLEEEEEEEEASE tell me this is a joke?? joke.  

Well, Granny considered it her duty to make sure that anyone having a good time felt guilty for doing so.  This process began weeks before we left on vacation, and apparently this particular year Granny didn't feel she gave it her all before we left. The "Allene got married" phone call was construed as subliminal hieroglyphics and interpreted as "You are there having fun, and I am left here. At home. Working tirelessly. In your place.  But don't mind me, enjoy your trip."  Granny had her ways for guilt deliverance, this time with the accomplice of Ma Bell...and our cousin Allene. 

So, much sooner than planned on this particular year, we loaded up the Buick and headed home to appease the giver of guilt.  I was assuming the rush back to Alabama also meant a stop at the Top Value Trading Stamp store to buy a wedding gift for Allene. (If that WAS to be the case, I was NOT going to be happy after pasting all those stamps hoping to score a matching plaid picnic basket for the spiffy new cooler!!  I mean I liked Allene and all, but it would just add insult to injury, sacrificing the hard earned and well licked stamp books for a wedding gift. That after abruptly causing, albeit unknowingly, the untimely exit from the mountain haven of vacation bliss!)  From that summer vacation on, before we left the driveway of our home, the word was put out:  "DON'T CALL US!  EVEN IF ALLENE GETS MARRIED!!  WE ARE NOT KIDDING!!"

Epilogue:  You can imagine my further resentment and bitterness when just a few months post "Allene got married!" was duly noted that "Allene got divorced!"


Thursday, July 28, 2011

A Random String of Thoughts: Coconut Extract to Spiral Staircases

Gleaned from my musings on Facebook from days gone by...

A random string of thoughts from my brain: Begins with Coconut extract and ends with a spiral staircase. 

Never dreamed I would be pondering ANY of this as today began... Dan's making Coconut-Lemon Bars to take to work on Wednesday, did we have Coconut Extract he asked?  Once upon a time we did, so I rifled through the pantry, but alas no coconut extract.  Dan replied, "Well, I'm sure it'll be fine without it." I responded with the cliched response, "Que sera, sera! Whatever will be will be!" Which immediately brought to mind the picture of Doris Day breezing down a spiral staircase for the opening of her TV show, her happy, melodious voice singing "Que, sera, sera!" Final part of the random string:  I remember thinking every week during my own private Sing-Along with Doris', "Que, sera, sera!", how desperately I wanted to one day have my very own spiral staircase. 

OMG!  More random: I wonder if singing "Que, sera, sera" all those years with Doris is why I wanted to take French in high school??

Epilogue:  The virtual ink on this Facebook post was still sopping wet, when a bossy college friend thought it her duty to call a possible error to my attention--wistful stroll down my personal lane of nostalgia brought to a screeching halt--"Que sera, sera" was NOT a song of French origin. I should have signed up for Spanish class instead... Hhhmmpff... I'll just bet Miss Know-it-All has pent up frustration from living in a single level domicile with little need or desire for a spiral staircase...Bénissez son coeur!

Epilogue translation:  Bénissez son coeur-- Loosely translated from the FRENCH...Bless her heart!